As much as i wanted to tell this fellow friend of mine who was so full of himself and doing childish act a piece of my mind, i dont think i will do it now.



What he said and assume was so ridiculous that im so amused i have to let my dear friends know! I'll share with u this amusing little experience i had here.

let me quote you one example to get the essence of the whole story ok?

one of them was:
"why dint u ask wenqi to invite me? Probably you did mention why i am not there and then you know i wasnt invited. I am not faulting you."

wth? One whole big round just for a invitation to a party.

My dear friend, get ur facts right before you come whining and emo-ing that you're left out please. Dont be so childish. As a suggestion, i think u shld start thinking of why u might think that ppl ostracise (wat a heavy word that you chose..tsk) you and reflect upon it yea? =))


while shaun and i was talking abt it, we made a joke out of this matter with this little converstation:


"WQ U BITCH! WHY U NEVER INVITE ME TO PARTY!"

" aiya shut up, i scare u 5mins before the party pangseh me lah"

AHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA!

Why? becos this friend of mine kept assuming the reason why he wasnt invited to steph's bdae was becos he pangseh me 5mins before my 21st party (w.o valid reason and i found out its becos he couldnt decide to come or not (wah good fren still need to decide come or dun come one ah?) and afterthat, too lazy to come cos too far.)

Woah, i've got such a good friend hur? Yea, he loves to mention value-ing frenship, first friend in sim and all sorts of warm, i-really-treasure-my-frens matters. But of all his tales, he got one of the fact wrong, steph wasnt his first fren but i am. I've got better memory in this i assure u. =) So, why he doesnt rmb that im his first fren and all he think was steph? Im puzzled too. Maybe he think my best fren steph is pretty and that i was jus a little bee ard her and he only had eyes for pretty girls as friends. Ohhh and probably becos of that he was really upset that he wasnt invited to the bdae celebration i organised for steph but chose to not come mine becos steph is more significant he cant lose her. Awww that jus too bad for me right? =)

But its wrong to go ard labeling "first friend" and thus somehow or rather dirt the other party reputation. Thats unethical i see.

If all you could think of is that im petty over my party (that i think with or without u my first fren, i had lots of funnnnn with my loved ones) then, too bad, go on living in ur childish world and create assumptions.

Well, on the other hand, im the organiser, i got the privilege to invite who i like ( & for jus a small gathering, obviously only CLOSE ONES will be invited). I dont think i can clear my name for not inviting you becos of my bdae incident but it is thr my bdae you protray what kind of person you are to me and that you shown me the way u treat me as your first friend. So that also tells me and teaches me how much respect and friendship u deserve from me right? =)


One last thing to clarify ( that i dont think and why shld i but i better do) is that Steph's celebration that involve limay wasnt a "RMIT" celebration. Becos if it is, as the organiser, the 1st grp to be invited is our lecture clique (which doesnt include u my dear first fren, that i apologise =)) and the canoe ppl (which js DID invite but end up it doesnt match their schedule so they wasnt there) . Its just becos out of the 5 invitees, 4 is from RMIT doesnt mean it is a RMIT celebration. Eddie was there and that he held the connection to why we're all together.

Well, my blog is a private one so my dear first fren will not be able to read it but i wrote it to tell my own friends what ridiculous matter is currently happening in my life that i felt so amused with and i must share with youuuuuuu! hahahha!